please dun forget this part hor 
However, there are other ways
husbands can demonstrate this appreciation, she says. For example,
by sharing the domestic duties that a new mother is faced
with.
'A material gift is a momentary expression of thanks, but husbands
need to continue showing emotional support to wives as they bring
up the child together,' says Khiang.
Theology student and first-time father Poon Song En, 29, who did
not get his wife Carolyn Low, 28, a Mummy present, agrees.
'I didn't think a gift would have adequately expressed my thanks to
my wife. It is more practical to stay up with her during night
feeds and help her change the baby's diaper.'